CAT Tracks for May 31, 2012
SHY OR INTROVERTED?


CAT Tracks Editor's Notes:

WARNING, WARNING, WARNING

If you are not interested in the life and times of Ron Newell, scroll down and read the article about being shy and introverted.

If you are not interested in the trials and tribulations of the shy and the introverted, take your extroverted butt outta here!

;-)

Otherwise, read on...


Shy or Introverted?

Or both of the above!


As I sit in the cat cave...

...alone...

...I often paws to reflect.

I naturally shy away from gatherings...

...my hands shake, my voice quavers if I am forced into oral presentations.

Am I shy, or am I introverted?

Guess I could read the book referenced below: Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking by Susan Cain (but my last book reading experience - Multiplication Is For White People - was a bummer.)

But...

...I'm comfortable in my shell, have no desire for "couch time" to resolve my long-standing issues. (And, actually..."couch time"? Look who is expected to do all the talking! I'll pass on that...)

But...

I will have to admit that taking offense at one of the headings in the article:

    Quiet as Stupid?

Damn!

I never knew about this bias toward members of my group! They think we are stupid??? Selfish maybe...hoarding our knowledge as we do, refusing to answer the questions with which the mindless blabbers go on and on about. But...stupid?!

Now I am defensive...

...feel compelled to confess the origin of my shyness.

I can't really remember my childhood...whether I played well with others. If I had to guess (and most things are a guess for those of us who suffer from the normal travails of aging)...I was an introverted child, and never grew out of it.

But, then again, maybe that "affliction" is also a byproduct of the incident that caused by shyness. Since I don't go to doctors (of the body, much less of the mind), well, I shall never know.

Why am I shy?

I was an abused child...

No, no, no...don't go there! Although I served many years as an altar boy, my abuse was not at the hands of a priest.

Irony...

Me, the defender of teachers and teachers' unions...taking on the endless accusations made by education reformers, politicians, and pundits...lashing back at their labeling of so many teachers as "bad", as failing, as destroying the future lives of children.

At the age of six years old, I was abused by, yes, a teacher...one of those ruler-wielding nuns. P-A-I-N...not physical. She spared me the impact of her weapon of "mass" destruction. (My cloudy memory allows that the triggering incident of my violation may have been during mass. Back in the day, when St. Joseph's School has a church on campus, we attended mass first thing. School then followed.)

No, my abuse was the result of a public shaming that caused the deep psychological scars that I carry sixty years later. Sadly, I know that I shall never recover.

My sin?

Again with the irony...

...talking in public! (Again, either in mass or later in the classroom.)

Yes, sixty years ago I was given the "Michelle Rhee" treatment...

...my first-grade teaching nun did apply tape to my mouth and force me to sit...humiliated...in front of the rest of the class for what seemed like forever. I seem to remember missing recess also.

One thing I can tell you about introverts...public shaming works!

Extroverts...not so much. They laugh it off...happy to have the attention...accomplished their purpose! Look at me...ha, ha, ha.

But...

Little ol introverted me? I don't think I said another word through the rest of my educational career...including college. (I even tried to drop out of SIU during my Freshman year...becausy Speech was a required class. Somehow I made it. My college dorm mates laughed at me when they found out that I planned to be a teacher "when I grew up." Their catty comments along the lines of "How can you be a teacher...you don't talk!)

Oh, yes, I forgot...

I did say one word during my Junior year at Cairo High School!

In my review of old CHS yearbooks - specifically, the 1930 edition - I ran across an early picture of one of my old high school teachers...Mary Fitz.

More irony...

Mary Fitz was the Ron Newell of her day. She taught two required social studies classes - U.S. History for Juniors and American Problems for Seniors (yes, my old Government and Economics!)

I was an "A-student"...no brag, just fact. (My use of the past tense will soon become apparent.)

Mary Fitz was big on oral presentations in the classroom. And, if you were a "good student", it was mandatory. Acing tests and homework assignments were not enough to earn you an A in her class. (Although it was not in her course syllabus and I could probably have sued her today) Mary made it plain...you want an A in my class, you will give an oral report.

She made that very clear to me on that fateful day...another emotionally impacting day in my life...

Think it was in the second semester of my Junior year...probably third quarter. It was that time again...a time that I had managed to avoid during the first two quarters of the year...the day when students would "volunteer" to give oral presentations on some topic of their choosing (and Miss Fitz approval.)

By the third quarter, Mary had me "pegged". Nearly a 100-average on all of her tests (which would continue through my Senior year)...he's silent, but smart. Since "Ronnie" aces everything, obviously he is not challenged...he needs more to do. (Despite the fact that it did NOT come easy and I spent hours every night perfecting those homework assignments, studying for those tests...not watching TV - even after it was invented - not playing on my personal computer...since it had not been invented.)

So, on that fateful day, I slunk down into my seat and avoided eye contact with Miss Fitz. The extroverts did their usual "Me, Me, Me" routine that I so disdained..."Brown Nosers". But, then came the inevitable lull...and I slunk lower.

And, then, she called my name...

But, before I could even open my mouth, Miss Fitz began her "lecture"...her philosophy that I related above...about how "A Students" don't just do tests and homework, they go above and beyond what is required of "normal" students. This went on for what seemed like hours. I felt the eyes of fellow classmates upon me. (Remember, Miss Fitz had already called my name! There was not a doubt that all of this "tirade" was directed at me...shy, introverted me!) On and on...finishing up with a pointed comment: "If such a student does not do an oral presentation, well...said student shall not receive an A in my class."

Miss Fitz then stopped her pacing and stood stone-cold quiet...even prompting me to look up. Whereupon, she looked me dead in the eye and said: "So, Ronnie, are you going to do an oral report this quarter." You could hear a pin drop. Me? I could hear the sweat rolling down my back. Probably because the words could not initially escape my parched throat (but in my wild and crazy dreams I like to imagine that it was simply a pause for dramatic effect)...there was nothing but silence. Finally, one unshaky (but respectful) word did emerge from the shy, introverted student in the back row...

...okay, make it two:

"No, Ma'am."

I was true to my word...

...I never gave an oral report during my two years in Miss Fitz' class.

Miss Fitz was true to her word...

...although my class average hovered close to 100 for those two years, she gave me an 89 on my report card...a "C" back in the day! (Since it was "back in the day", whatever the teacher did at school was supported at home. Even though my parents had "high expectations", when I related "why" I was getting 89...it went no further.)

Actually, I lied...

Gotta give Miss Fitz her due...and claim a little stubborn-as-a-Newell "bragging rights". On my Senior 4th quarter report card, despite no oral report, Miss Fitz did honor me with a 95 rather than my designated 89! In fact, if my memory serves me, Miss Fitz even did some magical math and gave me a 95 for the entire second semester!

Nah, nah, nah, nah, nah...

...he who laughs last!!!


Psychological lessons:

  • Public shaming (e.g. tape on a talkative student's mouth) can be harmless, but may very well be hurtful. Teachers: Don't take the chance! I "recovered", but remember vividly to this day as to why I have trouble speaking out in public.

  • Miss Fitz: Thank you for your (unsuspecting) inspiration. I attribute my later-in-life ability to "stand up" under pressure, my strength of conviction to our "show down" on that fateful day. Yes, you won in the short run (five quarters of 89s), but I learned that if you stick to your principles, accept the consequences, you can win in the end.


A final observation...

If you have made it this far, you have learned the truth of a reference made in the article below:

    The evolution of educational technology may also help.

    Ms. Cain found introverted students responded more frequently in class discussions held online, where they had time to gather their thoughts and could contribute without others talking over them. Similarly, research has shown introverted students answer questions more often when teachers use anonymous student-response systems, often dubbed clickers.

I mean...

I don't know nuthin' about no "clickers", but in the quietude and solitude of my cat cave, paws flying across my computer keyboard, I can go on and on and on! Hey, wanna blame somebody? Blame my first-grade teacher...Attila the Nun!

And, the next paragraph...

    Passion can be the best motivator for an introverted student to get more involved, Ms. Cain said. At City Neighbors, for example, each middle school student is required to read 25 books during the year, and then to discuss them one-on-one with teachers.

Passion is everything...

...in whatever you do.

For twenty-five years, Julie and Ron Newell lived and breathed Cairo High School. Cairo High School was not just a job...it was our extended family.

After my rant and rave of last Friday, I climbed into my new catmobile and drove to Sikeston...to clear my head, to change my mood.

When I left to return to the cat cave, a song on my latest CD hit me as appropriate. Since my "media system" has a repeat feature like iTunes or an iPod, I hit the button and played it all the way home.

It's about the break-up of a romantic relationship, but with Betty Lane driving over the Cairo-Wickliffe bridge that morning to "turn in her keys", well, my mind associated the song with the ending of a career of teaching...saying the final good-bye, as the fog rolls in.


When The Fog Rolls In
Artist: Train YouTube Video


Driving over the bridge to give you my keys
I know you don’t love me
I know it ain’t easy
Friends become lovers
And lovers lose friends
That’s when the fog rolls in
Oo oo oo, I’m losing you
Oo oo oo, you’re losing me, too

In through the kitchen,
Where we used to laugh
Smells of your cooking
Sounds of the past
Somehow we got older
The air just got colder
That’s when the fog rolls in
Oo oo oo, I’m losing you
Oo oo oo, you’re losing me too

So much for sewing up
So this is growing up
Everything’s going up for sale
The fog kept on rolling in
Time came to sink or swim
They say it’s better to try and fail
And we tried like hell

I take a deep breath with my hand on the door
Afraid ’cause I’m not gonna see you anymore
These were our tender years, this was our street
All of our stoplights and all our concrete
Now it’s all somebody else’s to take
Until the fog rolls in

Oo oo oo and now we’re through


Bears repeating:


Folks, please...

...take it but take care of it!


From Education Week...

Link to the Original Story


Studies Illustrate Plight of Introverted Students

By Sarah D. Sparks

Educators often look for ways to bring quiet children out of their shells, but emerging research suggests schools can improve academic outcomes for introverted students by reducing the pressure to be outgoing and giving all students a little more time to reflect.

"Whoever designed the context of the modern classroom was certainly not thinking of the shy or quiet kids," said Robert J. Coplan, a psychology professor and shyness expert at Carleton University, in Ottawa, Canada. With often-crowded, high-stimulation rooms and a focus on oral performance for class participation, he said, "in many ways, the modern classroom is the quiet kid's worst nightmare."

Susan Cain, the author of Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking, published by Random House this year, argues that such children often stop learning when they feel emotionally threatened in a class environment in which being an extrovert is considered the norm.

"There is too often a tendency to see it as inferior or even pathological," Ms. Cain said, "so teachers feel they have to turn the introvert into an extrovert."

Quiet as Stupid?

Take a typical class review session, in which a teacher asks rapid-fire questions and calls on students in turn.

"So if a teacher asks a question and the person doesn't answer right away," Mr. Coplan said, "the most common thing is the teacher doesn't have time to sit and wait, but has to go on to someone else—and in the back of their head might think that child is not as intelligent or didn't do his homework."

That slowness to speak can dramatically affect a student's success in classrooms where vocal participation and group activities are critical.

A 2011 study found teachers from across K-12 rated hypothetical quiet children as having the lowest academic abilities and the least intelligence, compared with hypothetical children who were talkative or typical in behavior.

Interestingly, teachers who were identified as and who rated themselves as shy agreed that quiet students would do less well academically, but did not rate them as less intelligent.

As many as half of Americans are introverts, according to the Center for Applications of Psychological Type, located in Gainesville, Fla.

There's a distinction between shyness — generally associated with fear or anxiety around social contact — and introversion, which is related to a person's comfort with various levels of stimulation.

A shy student, once he or she overcomes the fear, may turn out to be an extrovert, invigorated by being the center of attention.

By contrast, an introverted child may be perfectly comfortable speaking in class or socializing with a few friends, but "recharges her batteries" by being alone and is most energized when working or learning in an environment with less stimulation, social or otherwise, according to Mr. Coplan and Ms. Cain.

Mr. Coplan and his colleagues found differences between shy and introverted students as early as age 4: In play observations, shy children tended to hover anxiously just outside a group of unfamiliar children, while introverted children played quite happily on their own and did not attempt to approach other children.

"It seems clear," the researchers concluded, "that 'solitude' is an insufficient criterion for characterizing children as 'socially withdrawn.' "

In the 2011 study of teachers, the educators were more likely to respond to an over talkative student with direct intervention or social-learning strategies, while, for a quiet child, they were more likely to simply watch and wait or report the child's behavior to the principal or parents.

"The kids who are bouncing around the room and punching people in the face need to be addressed right away. In a classroom of limited resources, that's where the resources go," Mr. Coplan said, adding that the quiet students often get ignored.

The research is mixed on when and why quiet students are academically challenged. Previous, separate studies by Mr. Coplan; fellow Carleton University psychologist Kathleen Hughes; Mary M. Reda, an associate professor at the City University of New York; and others have found that quiet and shy students often have difficulty with class grades, but that largely comes from lower levels of class participation and oral skills.

Test-Taking Advantage

Some studies show introverted students can be better than extroverts at taking standardized tests."Parents of extroverts have told me [those students] never actually learn to work alone, so when the time comes to take tests, ... they have trouble," said Ms. Cain, a former corporate lawyer and researcher.

On the other hand, she said, focusing too much on students' work in a 30-to-a-room class environment doesn't necessarily prepare students for the project-based group work more common in the workplace.

"I actually think our [science, technology, engineering and mathematics] shortages are a cultural problem as much as a pedagogical problem; the type of kid who likes to sit by himself and do math problems or science problems is not supported," Ms. Cain argued. "Most science operations are done as teams, but scientists still have quite a bit of privacy and autonomy to their workday," she said, noting that such environments are also hard to replicate in classrooms.

Friendly Setting

Bobbi MacDonald, the executive director of the City Neighbors charter schools in Baltimore, is trying to create a more introvert-friendly environment at the network's three campuses.

"We start with play-based kindergarten and give increased independence and autonomy each year that you are in school," she said. "It used to be everyone is seated at their desks in a row, and everyone is supposed to be thinking the same thing at the same time. Those days are gone.

"When an individual needs a minute, it's not unusual for that student to find a space."

Most City Neighbors classes have a mix of desks, tables, and small reading nooks with soft chairs, and some walls are lined with floor-to-ceiling whiteboard or tag board, so that students can work on the schools' project-based curriculum alone or in small groups.

"Each teacher does it a little differently," Ms. MacDonald said. "In science class, the students might be in small groups, with one person as the team leader, one watching the clock, one taking minutes, and so on."

Creating smaller groups, of two or three rather than five or more, and providing clear roles for each member can help quiet students make a contribution.

Studies of college students have found that particularly in larger and unstructured groups, more-vocal members can dominate, even when they do not have the correct answer.

"There are many situations in which so much talk is not helpful, and if there is so much talk, there is less time to sit back and think," said Diana Senechal, a former New York City public school teacher and the author of the 2011 book Republic of Noise: The Loss of Solitude in Schools and Culture, published by Rowman & Littlefield Education.

"Those times of not entering the conversation—listening to what others say, thinking about it—can be very important," she said.

Particularly in subjects such as history, which call for students to think about connections between events and people, teachers should encourage all students to practice more listening and contemplation rather than rely primarily on class discussions and group work, Ms. Senechal argues.

In one small case study, Paul G. Barker, an educational leadership doctoral student at the University of Pennsylvania, in Philadelphia, and the president of Our Lady of Good Counsel High School, in Olney, Md., interviewed graduating seniors whose teachers considered them quiet.

The students said their teachers often perceived them as less engaged in class, but they actually considered the time they took to process ideas before speaking a "learning advantage," Mr. Barker found.

Finding Entry Points

"When you're teaching something challenging, where the answers don't come easily," Ms. Senechal said, "the students who like to talk will jump in quickly, and then, if the discussion is well-managed, they might find their answers are not complete.

"The quieter students who spend more time thinking about it than talking about it," she said, "may have an opportunity for entry here."

The evolution of educational technology may also help.

Ms. Cain found introverted students responded more frequently in class discussions held online, where they had time to gather their thoughts and could contribute without others talking over them. Similarly, research has shown introverted students answer questions more often when teachers use anonymous student-response systems, often dubbed clickers.

Passion can be the best motivator for an introverted student to get more involved, Ms. Cain said. At City Neighbors, for example, each middle school student is required to read 25 books during the year, and then to discuss them one-on-one with teachers.

The format is more time-consuming than the typical class-presentation book, Ms. MacDonald said, but it provides a safe environment for quiet children and those with reading problems to discuss what they read.

"Somewhere in that 25," she said, "the child will find that one book that they love, ... and when that happens, the teacher is right there waiting for them."