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CAT Tracks for May 4, 2014
ALFIE KOHN ON 'GRIT' |
To say that Alfie is not a fan would be an understatement...
From the New York Times
CAT Tracks Editor's Note:
Sorry, Alfie, but I ain't big on the "pump up the self-esteem" approach...
...saw too many students in my time with totally unfounded delusions of grandeur...
...the proverbial "legends in their own minds."
Children who were:
"Damned by false praise."
That being said...
...by all means, show your children unconditional love, in their successes and especially in their failures.
As a dearly departed colleague and friend used to tell his students after bluntly assessing their shortcomings in behavior or academics...
"Still love ya!"