CAT Tracks for May 4, 2014
ALFIE KOHN ON 'GRIT'

To say that Alfie is not a fan would be an understatement...


From the New York Times

Do Our Kids Get Off Too Easy?


CAT Tracks Editor's Note:

Sorry, Alfie, but I ain't big on the "pump up the self-esteem" approach...

...saw too many students in my time with totally unfounded delusions of grandeur...

...the proverbial "legends in their own minds."

Children who were:

"Damned by false praise."


That being said...

...by all means, show your children unconditional love, in their successes and especially in their failures.

As a dearly departed colleague and friend used to tell his students after bluntly assessing their shortcomings in behavior or academics...

"Still love ya!"